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"Today I am marrying my best friend, the one I laugh with, live for, dream with, and love."
~ Erin & Forrest Pangborn

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

I've Been "Quoted" again!

Reporter Anna Hirsch and I have developed a great relationship over the past few months. She writes wonderful wedding articles, and luckily for me I have been one of the sources she interviews for them. Here is another that just recently came out. This one is from the Spokane.net


Your favorite restaurant? Ice-cream shoppe? Here’s what you need to know about bringing in fare from one of your favorite spots to share on your wedding day
Yeah, You Can Cater That

Anna Sachse CTW Features

'Maybe you and your fiancé spent your first date devouring a messy deep-dish pie from your favorite Chicago pizza joint. Or maybe he hid your engagement ring in a box of your beloved Dunkin’ Donuts. Or perhaps your mutual love of Ben & Jerry’s Phish Food has gotten your relationship through both good times and bad. Now you can’t imagine getting married without incorporating your favorite local treat into your day of “I do’s.”
Not to worry – although the details regarding acquisition, transportation and serving may vary, there’s a good chance you’ll be able to have your favorite ice cream cake on your wedding day and eat it too.

“Customization of wedding menus is really popular and very common,” says Wendi Hroncich, a wedding planner and founder of Ethereal Events in Seattle. “I would say that 50 percent of my current couples are choosing personalized food/beverage/dessert, in comparison to 25 percent in 2006 and 2007.”

In her role as coordinator, it is usually Hroncich’s responsibility to facilitate pickup or delivery of the treat to the wedding venue, although, if it’s simple enough, sometimes the couples opt to organize this aspect themselves. One of the couples she worked with served mini Jamba Juices in their favorite flavors (which happened to match the wedding colors) as a pre-ceremony treat. Hroncich worked with the individual store closest to the wedding venue to have the smoothies delivered one hour prior to ceremony, stored in the on-site freezer and then served by the staff as guests arrived. A different couple she worked with wowed their guests by serving hot burgers and fries from Dick’s Burgers, a Seattle institution, an hour before the end of the wedding. In this case, it was preplanned that the best man would pick them up from the local Dick’s drive-thru.
Depending on the company, product and location, your caterer also might be willing to directly take care of acquiring your treasured treat. “We love to customize menus with special items and try to raise the bar of creativity,” says Sarah Glass, sales & catering manager for Butler’s Pantry Catering in St. Louis.

Butler’s Pantry clients have opted to augment their menus with St. Louis-based products like Gus’ Pretzels, Ted Drewes frozen custard or Missouri Baking Co. Italian cookies, or have simply served up crowd-pleasing standards like Jimmy John’s subs or two-packs of Krispy Kreme donuts for a late night snack as guests were leaving. Other popular treats have included warm chocolate chip cookies and milk shooters, as well as “candy bars,” where favorite sweets are served in glass cookie jars with scoops and glycine bags for the guests to take the candy home.
Having your caterer take care of these specialty items will help ensure seamless service, however, keep in mind that they will likely include a service charge for the time and additional rentals involved. “Sometimes, depending on the item, I would suggest to the client it would be less expensive for them to handle a personal treat themselves,” says Glass. “But for many, the service charge is worth not having to deal with the details.”

That said, even if you handle the ordering and delivery yourself, particular venues, especially fine hotels with in-house catering, may add additional costs onto the bill if the treat is similar to something they already provide or if they are expected to serve it. For example, it’s common for a hotel that makes cakes in-house to charge a cake-cutting fee for bringing in an outside dessert, or a corkage fee for bringing in an outside wine, says Hroncich. But if a venue doesn’t have a special menu item you’re looking for and can’t easily find it themselves, they may forgo the fees entirely, or just charge you for the additional materials and labor.

To make things even easier on you, some outside local haunts will handle transportation, set-up, service and even materials as part of the package. “Generally, all we require are two eight-foot tables; we handle everything else,” says Bruce Kaplan, owner of Ben & Jerry’s stores in the Uptown Shopping Center and Pearl District of Portland, Ore. For weddings, Kaplan’s stores frequently set up sundae bars with four to six flavors of Ben & Jerry’s ice cream, hot fudge, caramel sauce, fresh whipped cream, nuts, sprinkles, all-natural brownies and fresh chocolate chip cookies. Couples who want to make a stronger statement could even ask Kaplan for a tie-dye ice cream wedding cake, or one decorated with mini ice cream cones or cow spots.
“I think people are definitely trying to think outside of the box with weddings these days,” says Glass. “Even a small special item can make a wedding unique, and the bride and groom get to share a piece of their lives with their guests.”

Copyright CTW Features

Monday, January 5, 2009

Wedding Planning Workshop 2009

ONE WEEK UNTIL:
The Second Annual Wedding Workshop,
LOVE PLANNING YOUR WEDDING FROM START TO FINISH!

There was such a great response to last year's workshop we're really excited for this year's! It's designed for brides and grooms, mothers, maids of honor and more. Whether you’re just getting started in the planning process or have all your vendors lined up, this workshop is for you! You will receive tips on how to make your wedding truly unique and flawless, and gather a wealth of knowledge to make it the best day of your life!

When: Monday January 19, 2009 or Tuesday January 20, 2009
5:30 to 7:30 pm

Where: The Yacht Club on Lake Union
3229 Fairview Ave E, Seattle, WA 98102


We will cover:


  • Quick and Easy ways to save money

  • Key questions and Red flags when selecting vendors

  • Décor and design ideas

  • How to individualize your wedding

  • Setting up a timeline to make the day flow smoothly

  • How to make it come together

  • New alternatives to old traditions

  • And much much more!

Our years of experience will help you avoid costly mistakes of previous brides, and guide you to a fun enjoyable engagement! Let a professional answer all of your questions big or small.


Only $50 per couple or $ 25 per individual. Credit Cards accepted through Pay Pal, Checks made Payable to Ethereal Events LLC. Tickets also available at the door.




Tickets





Call or email Wendi at info@etherealevents.com or 206.920.2658 for more information.

Let Wendi help you love your wedding from start to finish!

Sunday, January 4, 2009

Guest Spot!

I have the honor of a guest writer for my blog today! My husband, Erik Hroncich, is the owner and the Head trainer of Edge Personal Training located in Seattle's Ballard neighborhood. He has over 9 years of experience working with clients with many different needs, abilities and goals. Many of the soon-to-be-brides I know want to look and feel their best on their wedding day and Erik is going to give you some helpful hints on how to do just that!

Hey everyone! Per the introduction above, I am Wendi's Husband and I own EDGE Personal Training. Just to add some credibility (other than being Wendi's Husband) I am a graduate of Ashmead College's Fitness Trainer Program (6/01) and have been certified through NSCA (National Strength and Conditioning Association) since January of 2003. Now that you'll believe me, here are some tips on getting into the best shape for you on your wedding day!

1. Set safe and attainable goals
One big "mistake" I have had many Brides make is shooting for the stars for their wedding day body. Now I am definitely not saying don't have a high expectation for yourself, just don't give yourself any added stress. By setting smaller, step-by-step goals you can focus on a very short term goal. Say going to the gym 2-3 times that week for at least an hour. That way you can have a safe range of days to hit and if you exceed it, you'll feel even better both in health and in yourself!

2. What to do for you
When doing a workout make sure you do some sort of warm-up (5 minutes of cardio, a light total-body exercise like a clean and jerk or squat) do your total body routine (upper and lower body parts) and then jump into cardio for 30-60minutes. To get the body you want (toned, slim, defined) for your wedding day you are going to have to do weights AND cardiovascular exercise. Weights will not make you have bulging muscles or have you lose your neck as long as you do them properly. Sets and reps are more indicative of how your body will respond than the actual weight lifted. Meaning, if you lift, say 10lbs for dumbbell chest press 2 sets at 15-20 times, you will get toned and dense muscles instead of "big" muscles. Don't be afraid to raise the weight when it gets easier either. As long as you keep the sets and reps the same your body will continue to respond properly. Cardio after your weights utilizes the body's fuel more effectively allowing you to burn more fat calories over the course of the workout. This is very long and boring to explain so just trust me on this one. If you would like to have the whole explanation just contact me one way or another!

3. Consistency is key
Results will always happen as long as you stay consistent. One thing I see many clients do too many times is come in Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday and then not until Monday again. Now, they are getting 3 times a week in, however 4 days off in a row makes progress slow up a bit. It would be like taking 2 steps forward and then 1 step back. If you are able to go in 3 times a week, try and space it out some. A schedule of Monday, Wednesday, Friday or Monday, Thursday, Saturday is more beneficial because there is less "down time" between workouts. Thus, allowing your body to become more receptive to the workouts themselves.

4. Don't start too late!
A lot of people, brides or otherwise, cram in exercise in a month before whatever they are getting ready for and hope it works. Well let me save you the headache and tell you now...it doesn't! When your body has a consistent environmental change, (temperature, elevation, physical exercise, etc.) it goes through an adaptation phase to cope. Each adaptation phase lasts around 4-6 weeks depending on the consistency and severity of the change. Meaning, if you save all of your routine for the last month before your wedding the changes you will have will be mainly internal. You will have changes in your appearance but not as much as the next adaptation phase will give you. Long story short, give yourself 3-4 months prior to your wedding to kick your own butt so you can see exponentially better results than just working hard for one month. (it will stay off longer too!)

5. Sneak it in whenever you can
I know, I know. This point has been brought up more times than I can count but there is a reason, it works! Parking further out from the entrance of a store, taking the stairs instead of the elevator, stretching while watching TV, etc. All of these activities take so little time it almost seems like there is no point (which is why most don't do them). Using hypothetical numbers, say you go to the store and park far away from he door causing you to walk further to get in and you burn 35 calories round trip, car to store. Now say you do this 100 times over the course of a year and burn 3,500 calories. Guess what? That is equal to 1lb of body fat! Now if you couple other "sneaky" habits along with a regular workout routine you will see a pretty significant change in yourself.

Well that's all I'm giving you for free folks! (kidding, Wendi has been trying to get me to be a regular contributor for a while so give her feedback one way or another if you would like these types of posts to continue) I had fun writing this and I hope this information helps some of you beautiful brides out in the war against your dresses! If you have any further questions please don't hesitate to ask. The EDGE web link is above or you can e-mail me directly at erik@edgepersonaltraining.net

Thanks for your time and good luck in the new year!

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Seattle Wedding Show Tips!





Happy New Year!

I wanted to let you know, if you didn't already, that the largest Wedding Show, The Seattle Wedding Show, is this weekend January 3rd and 4th, 2009. Doors of the Washington State Convention Center open on Saturday at 10:00 am, with ticket sales at 9:30 am and Sunday 10:30 am ticket sales 10:00 am. It closes each night at 5:00pm. I don't have a booth this year, but will be hanging out on the concourse Saturday morning for a few hours in the Wedding DJ's booth. I would love to see you! There are a ton of wonderful vendors at the show, great food and cake, so it will be a lot of fun if you go.

Here are some tips to make the show fun and easy:

  • Wear comfortable shoes. It's a huge show. It's possible it could take you 2+ hours to get through it. So much great stuff to see including a fashion show!

  • Layer your clothing. Generally it's cold in the morning at the show and then fills and heats up.
  • Decide when to go. Saturday is very busy especially in the morning. If you want to avoid the crowds go later in the afternoon or on Sunday. Sunday late afternoon is the least crowded, but some of the vendors may have run out of their samples and freebies by then. So, Sunday morning is best!

  • Create a separate wedding email address. After the show you could end up receiving emails from many different vendors. To keep your personal or professional email clean create a wedding only email. This eliminates a lot of clutter in your inbox. Also, only give this email to the vendors you want to contact you directly. Then when you get an email you know it's from someone you are interested in. (This only applies if you're looking for vendors with out my or another coordinator's help.)

  • Create information labels. This will prevent you from having to write your contact information over and over. You will want to include your name, phone number, email, maybe your address. I have found that large mailing labels work best for this. 1 sheet is probably enough, but is up to you. (Again this only applies if you are looking for vendors solo.)

  • Don't be afraid to go into a booth look around and speak with the vendor. In my years at the show I have seen the timid brides. The vendors are there to meet you and chat about your wedding and how they may play a role. I know that it can get overwhelming, but know the vendors are there to meet you and answer your questions.

  • Bring your camera. The wedding show is filled with wonderful ideas. Each booth is created by the vendors to give you a feel for their style and business. Many put days into creating the right booth. Some booths are like a mini wedding set up, very creative and full of usable ideas.

  • Lastly, don't be afraid to say "No". It's okay not to give your information or take a flyer from a vendor that you are not interested in. It's your information, you don't have to give it out.


I hope this helps! If you have any additional questions or concerns email or call me. Please stop by and say "Hi!" if you do come Saturday morning. Again, I'll be in the Wedding DJ's booth. I would love to see you. Have a great time!

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Wedding Workshop 2009

I am so proud to announce our Second Annual Wedding Workshop,
LOVE PLANNING YOUR WEDDING FROM START TO FINISH!

There was such a great response to last year's workshop we're really excited for this year's! It's designed for brides and grooms, mothers, maids of honor and more. Whether you’re just getting started in the planning process or have all your vendors lined up, this workshop is for you! You will receive tips on how to make your wedding truly unique and flawless, and gather a wealth of knowledge to make it the best day of your life!

When: Monday January 19, 2009 or Tuesday January 20, 2009
5:30 to 7:30 pm

Where: The Yacht Club on Lake Union
3229 Fairview Ave E, Seattle, WA 98102


We will cover:
  • Quick and Easy ways to save money
  • Key questions and Red flags when selecting vendors
  • Décor and design ideas
  • How to individualize your wedding
  • Setting up a timeline to make the day flow smoothly
  • How to make it come together
  • New alternatives to old traditions
  • And much much more!

Our years of experience will help you avoid costly mistakes of previous brides, and guide you to a fun enjoyable engagement! Let a professional answer all of your questions big or small.


Only $50 per couple or $ 25 per individual. Credit Cards accepted through Pay Pal, Checks made Payable to Ethereal Events LLC. Tickets also available at the door.




Tickets






Call or email Wendi at info@etherealevents.com or 206.920.2658 for more information.

Let Wendi help you love your wedding from start to finish!

Thursday, December 4, 2008

I've Been "Quoted"!

Several months ago journalist, Anna Hirsh, came to me with some questions relating to a wedding article that she was writing. I was excited she found me and wanted my wedding expertise! She emailed me today and let me know the article I helped with is now published and syndicated. I'm thrilled! It's available in over 200 different places both print and online across the U.S. and Canada!
I've posted it below, but here are a few other places to check it out:

Here is her wonderful article.
This one was printed in http://www.philly.com/.

Posted on Wed, Nov. 26, 2008

Winter-style weddings
Anna T. Hirsh

"Maybe Hollywood movies have made it appear that weddings only take place on sunny days in the month of June, but there are, in fact, 11 other perfectly good months, and some of the best are the coldest. Come rain, come sleet, come snow, winter weddings have a natural elegance all their own, and provide the perfect backdrop for a romantic, intimate celebration. You just have to take care of a few details first.

The most important thing you have to consider when having a winter wedding is actually the same thing at the top of the list when planning a summer event - the location. Although you could still have a partial outdoor event with a tent, the tent would probably need to be sealed, heated and have a floor, which can really up the cost, so most winter weddings take place at indoor venues. A perk, however, is that winter months - November to April - are generally considered off-season, thereby making some of the high-end venues a little more budget friendly, says Wendi Hroncich, founder of Ethereal Events in Seattle. The only exception is December, a popular wedding month when brides not only have to compete with other brides for venues and vendors but also with corporations who are having their holiday parties.

There are other considerations to make, as well, if you select a date during the holidays. "Save the dates are a must," says Hroncich. "Out of town guests need time to plan ahead in order to get flights and hotels during this busy season." Be aware that people might not be able to make it due to their own family's holiday traditions, or that bad weather might downsize your guest list at the last minute.

While there's nothing you can do about canceled flights, you can try to make sure your guests make it to your wedding once they are nearby. Joe St. Cyr, director of Joseph Todd Events, has been planning and styling winter weddings in New York City for over 20 years and says the biggest issue is probably transportation. "A sudden snowstorm can grind things to a halt, but people rarely cancel their weddings," says St. Cyr. Consider providing transportation, picking a location convenient to public transportation or be prepared to pick people up, and add a little extra time before the ceremony and between events to allow for any late guests.

But once these practical details are taken care of, it's time to have fun with all the possibilities for cold weather wedding décor. St. Cyr advises avoiding trite clichés like icicles, snowmen, snowflakes and fake snow, in favor of a less literal, more sophisticated scene that might include birch branches, clear acrylic chairs and mirrored tabletops, and drawing on a color palette that combines white, clear and crystal with a bit of color such as ice blue, forest green, black or the natural tones of wood and greenery. The look can be ultra sleek and modern by creating the illusion of an ice palace, or you can construct an enchanting country feeling with wooden chargers and lanterns in place of votives.

When it comes to flowers, there is a lot less local, seasonal variety during the winter so if a bride really has her heart set on a particular blossom, it may have to be imported, which adds to the cost, says St. Cyr. Instead, consider having fun with creative presentations that use less flowers or surprising substitutions. Hroncich recommends that a bride and her florist play with different items like berries and branches in both bouquets and centerpieces. For a wedding he is working this winter, St. Cyr is using chunky square glass containers, each containing a single kind of flower, including white roses and white orchids, and herbs like lavender and rosemary for muted, earthy color.

But flowers aren't the only element of a winter wedding affected by the weather. The food is probably one of the biggest differences between the seasons, notes Hroncich. "A typical summer selection of fresh halibut, salmon or sea bass will not be readily available, and even if it was, it's probably not what your guests are expecting or wanting on a cold day," she says.During the winter months, people are more willing to have heavier, creamier, homier menus, such as rack of lamb with garlic mashed potatoes and roasted root vegetables or brussel sprouts, adds St. Cyr. "You're going to see more soups served as a first course instead of a salad," he says. "I even had a couple that served a stew as the entrée."

As to the most important element, the wedding gown, most brides don't actually allow the season to affect their decision in what they wear because they're mostly inside anyway, says St. Cyr. But winter brides may purchase or have another piece made, such as an elegant winter white coat, heavy shawl or faux fur wrap. "No matter how elegant the rest of her wedding is, no bride wants to be standing there in a long, puffy parka," says St. Cyr. "

I hope to work with Anna again in the future. She is a very talented journalist and writes about what I love, Weddings! Thanks Anna!

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

5 Quick & Easy Tips for Last Minute Holiday Party Planning!




Now that December is upon us, it may be crunch time for planning your holiday party. Here are some quick and easy tips to plan an unforgettable evening that won't break the bank.

  1. First and foremost have FUN! Holiday parties are often had to celebrate all the wonderment the season brings, and the time you get to spend together! Enjoy the inviting, shopping, decorating, etc. (One trick I use is listening to festive music so my mood is light and happy while getting everything together before my guests arrive. I also try and remember that my guests are my friends or colleagues and they'll like me no matter what id do for the party! ) Your guests will be able to see and feel the fun you had in planning a party for them.

  2. Make it personal. Your party's atmosphere is elevated if there is a connection to each of your guests in the different elements. (food, wine, decor, etc.) If you are having your neighbors over, serve the bottle of wine or alcohol you had at your last get together or last year's holiday party favorite. If the party is for family, serve a favorite family recipe. You may also want, if possible, to display or use the gifts you received in recent years past to serve the food and/or beverages. The person who gave it will be honored that you are using it.
  3. Use one theme and stick to it. It is often overwhelming when shopping for a holiday party because of the vast options out there. Use your theme, whether it is a color scheme or a snowflake, to tie all your elements together. Invites, decorations, table settings, cocktails or mock tails, etc. You can have so much fun with this!

  4. Share the hosting duties. Team up with your husband, a family member, best friend, or neighbor and host the party together. My sister and I often team up to host parties and it works really well. We discuss before hand the theme and guest list, then divide duties between the two of us. She may prepare the appetizers and I will do the main course or dessert. We will each pick a beverage that compliments our guests as well as the food we have contributed. Sometimes, one of us will do all of the food and the other will provide all of the beverages that go with the menu and theme. It is a lot of fun to collaborate with someone else and it can also take off some of the pressure!



  5. Sending an informal invitation is okay. Using a service like evite for your last minute party will help you reach your guest instantly. It also helps you track your RSVP list.

Good Luck with your Holiday Party Planning! If you need further assistance or a party planner please email me: wendi@etherealevents.com

Monday, December 1, 2008

Calling for Your Stories!

Weddings often bring out the best and the worst in people. As a professional wedding planner, I have seen my share of sweet, crazy, romantic, and disastrous moments! I am in the process of compiling all my favorite stories horrible and lovely of real weddings glories and mishaps. I would love for all of you to share your stories with me. As wedding guests, brides maid, maid of honor, or past bride, you have witnessed a lot. Vendors, I know we that have seen thousands of wonderful moments, and possibly several horrible, now hilarious ones too! Please share them with me.

You can either post them here OR email me at wendi@etherealevents.com. Please only share stories you don't mind I may use at a later date. Names would of course be changed and people protected. Thank you. I look forward to hearing from you!